It's funny, Chad is always mad at me because I explain everything through example - that is the easiest way for me to understand something. He likes cold hard facts laid out in sequence. Watching this I think the example thing is probably something I developed in our...unique...communications :)
guy and i have culture clash, battle of sexes, general near constant misunderstanding. the only thing that solves everything is lowering expectations. i'm not saying i think he's less intelligent or less sensitive than i am based on his culture, his gender. i'm saying i no longer expect that he will understand what i want or what i'm trying to say all the time. problem solved. lowered exectations.
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It's funny, Chad is always mad at me because I explain everything through example - that is the easiest way for me to understand something. He likes cold hard facts laid out in sequence. Watching this I think the example thing is probably something I developed in our...unique...communications :)
guy and i have culture clash, battle of sexes, general near constant misunderstanding. the only thing that solves everything is lowering expectations. i'm not saying i think he's less intelligent or less sensitive than i am based on his culture, his gender. i'm saying i no longer expect that he will understand what i want or what i'm trying to say all the time. problem solved. lowered exectations.